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I have a long hard question that starts in dallas texas, you might cry, read at your own risk!?

Lets start at day one of this month, i broke up with my "wife" of 8 years (highschool sweethearts) and left for georgia, 1600 miles. next day she calls me and tells me we need to work this out, and im dumb and in love so i say okay and drive on almost no sleep 1600 more miles. i get home and we have a few days of "make-up" then itake her to work. (she dances at the fare room strip club under the name carolyn) On the way to work this dodge viper loses control and ends up sideways on the highway so i T-bone him and i go into wet grass at which point i flip my car. (GTO) I go with my girl to the ER and it takes me 30 minutes to see her, then i go in there and tell her everything is going to be okay. Next cops come in ad ask if i was racing, i say no. they say the tred ff my tires say i was racing, i say no again. they leave and i go back to helping my grl. 10 minutes later i hear the cops outside the room saying this is not going to be easy, but we gotta cuff him. (im 6'4 and 350 ibs) i tell my girl i dont know whats about to happen but if i get taken it wont be long and ill see her soon. sure enough they charge me with street racing with minor body harm. i stay in jail for a week because the put my bail at 10,000! (drug dealers that lost their meth lab only got 1500 bail...) lawyer gets my out and i star licking my girls wounds. Thinking about the fact we just broke up last weekish i was going to get a dodge neon because she supports us (we have a 4 year old son) (she said she doesnt want me to work, insted i get half of what she makea) and i could afford the gas on a neon by myself. this girl crys in my arms and ask me to get an suv and i talked to her about the problem and she SWEARS ON HER KIDS LIFE she would never leave me. so i get a jeep comander (cheaper hummer) and we take a few days to make her all better. (all any of us had from the reck was scraches, act of god) so its time to take her to work a few days later so i do, drop her off 9/18/08 at 6:45 pm and (5 hours before i pick her up i get her a dozen roses, and some other stuff) i pick her up 9/19/08 at 5:45 am, only shes not there. I have gone door to door with my kid in hand to gas stations and food shops shoping her picture and asking if anyone has seen her. I called the police but they dont understand and are totally useless, all they did was check medics, morgues, and jails which i already did. they think its a lovers tiff, even though we been togeather 8 years, ALL her stuff is here likes clothes, HER 4YO KID, you know the little things... anyway the club (located at 35 and walnut) wont help at all, as far as letting me see the video in the club. OK so here comes the question, (sorry so long) i have some money saved up but not much to support my son and i so i have a friend in washington that can get me a job, BUT she would never find me there, never find her kid there... What do i do? either she left me, and doesnt care about her kid or me, (which i just cant see) OR she is in someones basement tied up. I cant afford this crazy lifestyle without her crazy money so i have to move. I need help so bad, i dont know what to tell my son when he says "i miss mommy, where is she?"

Public Comments

1. I would contact the television and radio stations and tell them this story. I would then call the police and tell them that I had done this and that I expected some help finding her. Then reevaluate your life with a stripper.....it is a hard life and not healthy for you, her, or her son.
2. Make sure to file a missing persons report on her with the police then do what you need to do to help your son. You are all that he has right now. I hope she is found and is okay. Leave a forwarding address at your old address and with the police so incase she is found, she can find you.
3. Report her as a missing person.
4. file a missing person report. doesn't she have any family? don't you have any family? I wish I could tell you what to do, but she may have just run off with one of her customers. you may want to talk to the local authority about taking kid out of state til she is found. Good luck!
5. how long has she been gone?if she did live you why would she live her son and why didn't she tell you that's not fair to you and her kid i think that is really missed up on her part. and if you fee like it is time to move do so because it looks like she doesn't care at all.about your son i would tell him te truth never lie to your kids it wil only hurt them in the long run.
6. you are in a tight spot , first thing , are you on the birth certificate ? don't do anything that could be called kid napping , and you are right any one of the things you say could be true about where she is , as far as the child i know first hand , my ex wife left me for a dope head , she got hooked on meth so bad , i had our two little girls , i could never say anything bad about their mother , i didn't want to hurt them , they would cry and ask to see mom , i had to lie to them for three years and always say mom was sick or mom was at work , when she was actually strung out someplace , she ended up getting pregnant by another man , not the dope head she left me for but a dealer instead , she got busted at the hospital when he beat her and the hospital found drugs in her system , the police and cps got involved , even though i would not let the kids be around her already cps came to me and said , no she cannot see the kids , you know they were one year old and six when this all started , but i took care of those girls , its been a little over six years now , she straightened up completely and is married to great guy now , works , church all of it , and now im the broken one , my girls decided they wanted mom and moved in with her two months ago , i know they need her but i do feel betrayed , i come here and try to help others when i can , cut up with answers when something is funny or stupid , look bro , you just do be strong and do what you have to do to make sure that boy is taken care of and he knows in his heart his daddy wont leave him , he is going to be confused and afraid , just love him and you will bothbe ok
7. you tell your kid. "We're looking for Mommy" and we are going to find her. U email your photo to America's most wanted. Shoot! Post it online. I hand up flyers all over my city to help. Some 1 knows where she is. If know one at the club said anything they r lying.
8. You know what I got out of this ? Carolyn Fare Room strip Club 35 and Walnut Dallas ,Texas So, what do you think your doing ? You are either advertising yourself , or you are putting your " wife " in harms way . You're shady .
9. GO PUBLIC! Look how long it has been since she went missing? Have her parents or friends called the police? The cops CAN get those tapes and view them. Do NOT be alarmed when YOU are questioned as a suspect in her disappearance. It's the normal thing to happen.