Hummer

Please read my boyfriend problem. I'll pray for you if you do. I'm in need of you, guys and girl?

My boyfriend studies abroad. He came back two days ago (but going back in one month and a half). He cheated on me once with this girl and I figured it out via Face-book. That was 5 months ago. This and that happened and I forgave him -- and things went by smoothly. Later on, this month, I see her typing on his Face-book wall, she wrote to him "I miss you already :(" and he told me it's nothing. I ignored. However, he studies in Virginia, but before traveling to get back here, he went to DC to his brother (and well the airport there anyway). And it turned out that this girl went to DC with him :( cause she commented on a picture of him telling him "Where is my picture in the Hummer car?" and yeah, he rented a hummer there. :'( Should I meet him and tell him about it? Considering he's here now, ands he's there? I want to know what to do (Ignoring him just like that is not an option..)

Public Comments

1. Dump him and move on
2. A girl is following him around the country and keeping secrets from you. He is probably done with you but doesn't want to hurt you too bad, so you should just leave him and make it easy for both of you.
3. Dump his scummy cheating A$$. He's playing you for a sucker and you're eating it up. If you don't dump him, you're an idiot.
4. You really should question if you want him as a boyfriend...seems as he's a part time boyfriend. If he has expressed that he doesn't want to be tied down to either of you, and you agree, you brought this on. If he is promising you a commited monogamous relationship, then he's lying and you should move forward and leave him behind. You cannot ignore this, this is something that can ultimately affect alot more thn just your relationship with him.
5. wow....Tell him about it, but like in a way that he wont know that you are going through his page...He cheated on you once and it seems like he is doing it again, so confront him and let him know, the best thing to do is for it to really be over...:(
6. You definitely should confront him, he has cheated on you before so he should be trying to earn your trust back if he really wants to be with you. In my opinion he's not as into the relationship as you are. Because no matter what people tell you if he was totally in love with you that time you guys spend apart would just make him want you more, not go around meeting with this ex girl of his. And lets just say he says is her looking for him then why would he take pictures with her and not put a stop to er messages? I know you really love him Zee but sometimes you have to make what seems like the hardest decision of your life and leave your love. Once someone told me "pain doesn't equal love" and that's very true. Sometimes we (women) think that we have to take a lot because is real love and blah blah but reality is we have to be strong and take that big step in our lives and say no more. Just remember that you and only you can decide on your life but at least definitely confront him, don't just do nothing, I think it's time you spoke out and let him defend himself or just let you know what's going on for real....... godd luck!