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Black women is this true on why you cant keep successful blackmen and usually end up with the poor ones?

Ok I'm not trying to be rude but at my Job were i work im white and i fix computers for companies, Friday i went to install some stuff on a guy computer which he was black and a Director of the company so he was a big dog.. When i walked into his office he had pictures of his wife with looked mexican or brazilian. She looked like Salma Hayek very beautiful and the kids were beautiful to.. I just see that usually the successful blackmen end up with white, mexican, asians and anything else not black while blackwomen usually end up with the bottom of the barrel guys with no jobs, no goals in life and just kinda living day by day. Also when ever i see a blackguy in a Hummer, BMW, Mercedes, Lexus etc the girl is mostly not black with him but when i see blackguys in trashy cars almost 100% of the time its blackwomen with them..

Public Comments

1. DONT GENERALIZE..
2. umm...
3. Interesting. Maybe something to do with the way they're raised? Or the fact that the lower the self esteem, the crappier partners women pick. Or the desire to go for the "bad boys". (which could be applied to any race) Maybe it's the limited neighborhood they may live in? The more money you have, then you have a car, you may 'get out more', and meet different people than the ones in your own neighborhood. Maybe there's an element of black guys that don't like black women for whatever reason, and so they date outside their race. hmmm... This one's a head scratcher! I'm really not sure! Good question.
4. Seriously, just because it is common where you live doesn't mean the rest of the US is this way.
5. There isn't really one true answer for this. Honestly, it depends on the man. In this case it depends on the black man. Sometimes he just happens to fall in love with a mexican or brazilian woman, or a woman who just is not black. You can't help who you love. In other cases, unfortunately, some black men develop a little bit of self hate and decides that he'd rather be with a different race for the fact that the woman has a lighter shade of skin or what some people consider a better grade of hair. So, in their eyes they are more appealing and their children will come out better looking. Remember, I said some black men. Not all. It cannot be helped that some black men have preference, I just wished they loved their different race women for the right reasons and not superficial ones. And not all black women get the short end of the stick. Some get lucky and find love with a black man.
6. truth? your asking for trouble with this question. not to mention what you have just said is a broad generalization.For someone who presents themselves as an educated individual, you have some pretty backwards thinking. (what you said may have a glimmer of truth however it is clouded in the lack of tact in which your argument was presented.)
7. I'm glad this isn't true otherwise I wouldn't exist. Neither would the Obama kids, my cousins, and tons of other black people I know
8. im black and i dont date blk men. ive always dated outside my race i dont see any valuable blk men they just dont turn me on period. i dont see why blk women wanna be with a loser blk guy when there are plenty of men from different races who have their head on str8.
9. Honestly being on Y!A & a number of other sites you may actually start to believe this hype but, then there's reality. I went to apply at my old job & realized the new owners were a Vietnamese man & a black woman who were married & it's not like a rinky dink company it's actually a Best Western with a high end restaurant inside owned by another black family who drives those Mercedes you stated. Ppl can choose who they want as partners. Even those women who choose to be with those who have less it's there choice not yours & if these people aren't doing anything to your life it shouldn't matter. Why are you so observant of everyone else's life? Do you lack a dating life of your own? Are you a nerdy guy from geek squad? Who are you dating?